well me and rick can help. we've done plenty of N15 engine swaps, as well as one GTi+T conversion so "kinda" know what we are doing
prices for parts
QG18DE+T tubular turbo mani and downpipe - £300
Turbo - £200
Intercooler and piping - £200
water and oil pipes - £100
full exhaust - £300
Mapping - £500
Injectors - £150? (not sure on this. ill text paul (almerasleeper)
ARP rod bolts - £100
recirc fittings - £100
Personally I dont think you need to open the engine to put 8psi through it. you would probly peek just past 200hp on 8psi from a T28 or T25 turbo on a 1.8. the gearbox will take it. the QG18 has a forged crank and rods, iirc they have deep ring lands and a MLS headgasket as standard. the weakest part is the chain... but there aint anything you can do about that.
id say map it on a dastek for simplicity. (and the fact they are here in fife)
ive not priced up suspension upgrades, but i'd budget £100 on polybushes and £600 on coilovers.