Christ, I've gone down to page 7!
In a nutshell I never had the car off the road long enough to fix all the problems (Mostly electrical) and it simply shut down on the way back from home one night with very little oil in it. When I coasted into the services, topped up the oil and restarted it, the distinctive sounds of bearings ripped to shreds met my ears.
With the result that I bought my £200 mondeo and left the mera sat outside my mums house as I had to move back to uni and decided what to do. I dug out the original engine we put in (Rebuilt by RaceworX ages ago). Which ran fine apart from an oil leak (And an exhaust leak). I dropped it off at Silverline racing to have the headgasket changed (new HG and head bolts). I could have just got another SR20 but may well have ended up with a shitter. This engine has around 55k on it and a ported/polished head, so will hopefully be ok after the work.
Purchased £700 of insurance too, with a view to limping it back to stafford (And breakdown recovery if it blows up) or getting it towed, undecided on that one.
The head has now been sent away to be skimmed, which was included in the work.
So waiting on the engine being done before I make a move, now I have the mondeo as a runabout it should be possible to fix any niggle and problem with the car and I will be able to enjoy it at last.